Learning to live with mess and Learning to be clean about it.
Sometimes we are put into scenarios which we have absolutely no control about. I'm sure everybody has been a similar type of situation. Some of us even cause that mess without realizing and sometimes it has a deeper meaning. There is always gonna be mess in people's life, people will be people and sometimes people behavior can seem like you're really messy. and opposite is true some times people might seem to be clean freaks. It can be taken both ways. however, those people need to realize that messiness will always find a way to make a mess into even the cleanest of rooms over time those rooms deteriorate and things must be renewed and replaced. Dirtiness came come up at any point of life but that's where this blog comes. Yesterday I had gone out with my friends to enjoy a really delicious cookout and everything seemed to be operating in order not a lot of mess or cups outside. the trash bin was full but regardless I really enjoyed being out for that day, after that I come back home only to come back to a big amount of mess bottles of beer left in the table plates left there and tables left open it wasn't as messy as other messier things I've seen however because of the situation I'm in right now I know there isn't much I'm able to do about that. I learned to realize where I am and my environment and people. If people are messy and yell at you for cleaning up, if they're the ones in control of that place its important to not get too involved into it. Of course, it all depends on who that person is. If it is someone who appreciates you for helping out and don't yell at you for doing the work go ahead and do it.
There have been times in my last home where I would argue with my own mother because she wouldn't want me to clean up my sister's mess because she was always going to be that way. To me its nothing more of an excuse. I tried challenging that because I don't want to be an unclean person but regardless some people are really stubborn about it. I guess these people can also be a mess themselves if they are being Contradictory, and I really don't like that when people do the opposite of what they say they intend to do. But sometimes you really can't do anything about those types of messes. It's like trying to control an Ef4 tornado, no matter what you do to stop it. It's gonna destroy your home its going to swallow you entirely. You'll go flying into its strong winds and it isn't pleasant. So what is the solution to massive tornadoes? Try to keep yourself safe, stay covered, preferably below 6 ft underground or be in a doomsday cover. Not everyone is safe and there's always chances someone is going to be taken. But Just like cleaning up you can't stop chaos you can only protect and prevent yourself from it. put things of value away stay out of the middle of the chaos or where you will be destroyed. Know that all that disaster that happened in the moment goes away the next days usually are clean ups and you can take advantage when no chaos is present. Life is really unpredictable so contingency plans always come in handy when things like that do present themselves it can keep you ready for unexpected situations. Once you learn about how to deal with it your mind even becomes more clear about every single objective. Now, that you are able to understand chaos and its raw nature you can learn that order exists too and there is always a moment for it too. It's the total opposite of chaos. Always organized, things don't seem to be confusing and its clear It's the moments you have total control of everything where you plan in order to win the war against chaos. Life is always better when there is organization and it keeps us into achieving better states less struggle with operations, people can see and wonder why everything looks so perfect. Even though everything is meant to be flawed. But order can really mask that and will for the most part be appealing because it's what its really meant to be all along. It is not easy to be clean but it will always be the right the decision and the long term counter to disaster. Its what keeps most executives on top. The chain their systems of operations. They are the ones that have the least of worries because they get to be the main executives and management. They don't guide by setting chaos for themselves because it is counterproductive but rather they set every piece where it belongs the minimum wage workers the middle layer of people who manage the ones who made the least efforts have the lowest levels of education. The managers, the ITs, and computer programmers who have studied their entire lives in order to understand how each program works so they are able to make adjustments for millions of people the bachelors who have mastered engineering to create better way to process everything and make things way more efficient for the company, the table of executives who are always discussing their next marketing strategies in order to run the company well and make sure customers are happy and increase the sales. It is all found within organization. and CEOs definitely take advantage of this in and the current situations in order to make the most out of every disaster. They only become more powerful when they figure out what it is that gets them more money and customer base. But in order to implement their big ideas they have to set the systems of organizations or know how to have a clean clear structure otherwise these systems never truly come to fruition. Every single time I walk onto buildings I can see it too. Amazing giant buildings made for these companies in order so they can get started to work or what about facilities and factories which are made to mass produce. One can walk and say wow there is just so much things in there. It can be extremely packed with things that are messy into place. Only because people pack things up naturally and put it into sections. Not to mention it becomes the laborer's main task and it holds it into place. I can speak onto this due to my current position which is something I will talk about it into the next Blog. Everything has a place where it needs to go and the things that don't either become unstoppable messes or get put in a place that is totally able to resolve the issues regardless the case. Achieving cleanliness is always one of the best things anyone can do for themselves even in the smallest of things but messiness is just something that is part of life that we all have to deal and live with.